The Ultimate Collection on Relationship / Love / Marriage

Written by Nick Hoang • October 6, 2020

Over the years, having been through a “few” heartbreaks and relationships, I have read and watched countless articles, books and YouTube videos on the topics of relationship/love/marriage. And obviously, being an organization freak, I have carefully saved all the very best stuff in a note below.

These resources have helped me tremendously in my path to find/grow/maintain romantic love/relationships. Hope you find them helpful too!

Preparation - Understanding yourself and your partner:

  • Big 5 Personality Test. The idea here is that you and your partner should share at least 2-3 value traits. Take the quiz here.

  • The 5 Love Languages: how people express love and want to be loved differ. Find out your love language here. Read the eBook here.

  • Understand your Attachment Styles by The Holistic Psychologist: Youtube link

How to find healthy love / How to find the right partner

How to maintain and grow relationships

  • The Key to Healthy Relationships by Jordan Peterson: Youtube link

  • If I knew then: Advice on careers, finance, and life from Harvard Business School’s Class of 1963: Article link

  • Mark Manson: 1500 people give all the relationship advice you’ll ever need: Article link

  • Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson: eBook link

How to move on / How to heal from heartbreak:


Hollywood romcoms have trained us to have super unrealistic expectations in love. I prefer real stories of couples. Like these: